Loving yourself is one of the most important characteristics that any woman should grace herself with on a daily basis. Whereas it can be quite a challenge for many young women who can find it difficult to appreciate their natural beauty based on various reasons such as scars, stretch marks, height, weight and sometimes how their body features is structured.
Many people have experienced some sort of hurtful criticism, remarks and opinionated comments that has given critics the confidence to talk about beauty and physical appearance
In a manner that makes a person cringe and feel unsatisfied with the body features they have.
Accepting who you are can be one of the biggest challenges even with the scars that one has to live with forever, it takes far more hard emotional work to appreciate the differences within the your physical beauty and natural beauty. Yet sometimes we feel obliged to put pressure on ourselves to fee like we need to please those who we admire to admire us in return hoping that will built into a maintainable relationship.
Hence it can be difficult to know whether does the person who you admire appreciates you more than just pleasing their satisfaction or can they actually show and express their true feelings and emotions about how they feel about you without having your own assumptions that they appreciate when the both of you engage with each other based online communication.
Believing in yourself comes with great filters of confidence to acknowledge that you will do whatever it takes to embrace yourself until society can see and feel that you feel comfortable in your body features and physical appearance.
Law student & Sorme’ Cosmetics South Africa’s brand ambassarder. Thembelihle Nkosi shows acknowledgement within her natural beauty and graces her physical appearance with profound confidence and she is not afraid of going the extra mile to accomplish her goals in modeling and leadership. Which at times it can be a challenge being young beauty princess who has won beauty contests such as Miss Mpumalanga 2012 and Miss Summer Heat Mpumalanga but also keeping herself determined to keep her education as a main priority that needs to be accomplished.
Engage To Evolve had the opportunity to interview Ms.Nkosi on who she is & what she does
ETE: WHAT MOTIVATED YOU TO DO BEAUTY PAGEANTS?
TN: “It started off as a hobby to put more work on my confidence.”
ETE: BEING A MODEL & BEING IN PAGEANTS REQUIRES BEING CONSISTENT. WHAT MAKES YOU RELEVANT & DIFFERENT?
TN: “I enjoy experimenting & trying new things to do during my spare time.”
ETE: DESCRIBE CONFIDENCE & SELF -LOVE?
TN: “Having the ability to let yourself know that you are beautiful without having the next person to tell you that you are beautiful.”
ETE: DO MODELS HAVE IT ALL WHEN IT COMES TO BEING CONFIDENCE OFF CAMERA?
TN: “Not the majority of the time but the best advice I can give is that. You have to learn how to be comfortable with your natural self because modeling gigs & pageants requires you to be prepared with any task that is handed to you.”
ETE: WHAT NEGATIVE COMMENTS DID YOU HAVE TO COME ACROSS RELATED TO YOUR BODY IMAGE?
TN: “I have been restricted to do commercial gigs only based on my height.”
ETE: HOW DO YOU OVERCOME NEGATIVITY WHEN IT COMES TO BODY IMAGE?
TN: “Remind yourself that, this is who I am & I was born to be different.”
ETE: GIVE A POSITIVE REASON WHY SHOULD EVERY GIRL & WOMEN START LOVING THEIR SCARS & BODY FEATURES THAT MAKE THEM FEEL UNATTRACTIVE.
TN:” It doesn’t necessarily make you unattractive but it makes you different & it is your identity to be proud of.”
ETE: DO YOU THINK THERE IS PRESSURE AMONGST YOUNG GIRLS/WOMEN TO FEEL APPRECIATED ON SOCIAL MEDIA?
TN: “Yes, simply because, don’t try to be the girl in the magazine, because the girl in the magazine does not like the girl in the magazine. Makeup & photoshop does a lot of changes to the edited pictures.”
ETE: WHAT TYPE OF LOOK MAKES YOU FEEL COMFORTABLE & CONFIDENCE?
TN:” I usually go for a natural look for my eyes & dark shade for my lips.”
ETE: WHICH SOUTH AFRICAN DESIGNER INSPIRES YOU TO REPRESENT THEIR CLOTHING BRAND IN THE FUTURE?
ETE: WHAT ARE YOUR TOP 3 BEAUTY PRODUCTS DO USE DAILY?
TN:” eyeliner, mascara & Sorme’ cosmetics BB cream
ETE: HOW DOES IT MAKE YOU FEEL THAT YOU HAVE ACHIEVED GREAT THINGS IN THIS MILESTONE?
TN: “ It has been phenomenal journey where I get the opportunity to learn more about myself as I get to work with brands.”
ETE: WHERE CAN ETE GLOBAL READER’S FIND YOU ON SOCIAL MEDIA?
TN: On Instagram @queenlee_n